Comments on: When IVF goes Wrong

By: Lindy Lake

Lindy Lake — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:37:49 +0000

I am tired of those who want biological children being called “selfish”. Many people who promote adoption won’t stop screaming about how “selfish” infertiles are. Their attitude, in fact, turned me away from adoption. I won’t listen to someone who is calling me names. Many of these selfish screamers have never adopted children themselves. They simply wish to lecture and judge others for not adopting. They make me sick.

By: IVF Clinic

IVF Clinic — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 11:57:10 +0000

There have been many incidences in the past where in the IVF process has went wrong. So one should be have some basic knowledge about IVF. Trust me it does help a lot.

By: Jess

Jess — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 21:09:54 +0000

I totally agree with you. It is so unfortunate how quick some people are to judge about situations they are totally unfamiliar with. I mean, saying that people with fertility challenges should adopt instead of trying IVF is drawing a line in the sand. The logical extension of that argument is that it’s immoral to get pregnant at all, even if it’s your first child and you aren’t using IVF. Or maybe if you don’t get pregnant on the first try you should adopt? If you have to use Clomid? Why is IVF the magic place where it suddenly becomes no longer OK to try to get pregnant?

By: Barbara

Barbara — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 17:28:42 +0000

I can’t believe those comments. I agree with you, being a mother, is the greatest gift you can give anyone!

By: Shannon

Shannon — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 15:54:05 +0000

I swear there should be an IQ test before people have kids… because those people were just stupid… I think the mother is wonderful what she is doing… and like you said… it isn’t the child’s fault… they are innocent to all of this… ugh stupid people make me so mad…