joe and i have decided we’re going to start trying to have a baby in june and, subsequently, have been talking about different ways to tell our parents when i get pregnant. it’s a lot of fun thinking of different ways to do that. last night, i told him i also need to think of a way to tell him. he says he doesn’t want me to surprise him and wants to be there when i take the home pregnancy test. i think it would be nice to have joe there when i find out, but it also would be fun to think of a way to surprise him with the news.

so here’s my question for you. did you or do you want to surprise your husband? if so, how did you or do you want to?